💡 Tips
Daily netiquette tips you can actually use (and share).
💡 Today’s tip — April 16, 2026
Give context in DMs — Start with the topic — don’t just say “hi” and wait.
Last 30 days
A simple “do this, not that” reminder each day. Share one with your team, family, or group chat.
- April 15, 2026 Summarize decisionsAfter a call, post the decision + next steps so everyone aligns.
- April 14, 2026 Avoid ‘urgent’ unless it’s urgentIf everything is urgent, nothing is.
- April 13, 2026 Keep threads on topicStart a new thread when the subject changes.
- April 12, 2026 Say thanks (and mean it)A quick “thanks for jumping on this” increases goodwill.
- April 11, 2026 Avoid vague “can you?”Try: “Can you send X by 3pm?” or “When can you send X?”
- April 10, 2026 Be careful with ALL CAPSCaps reads as yelling. Use bold or a short sentence instead.
- April 9, 2026 Use names when it helps“Hey Alex — ” makes it clear who should respond in a busy thread.
- April 8, 2026 Put the ask up frontStart with what you need, then add context. People skim.
- April 7, 2026 Respect time zonesSchedule messages or add “no rush” when you ping outside business hours.
- April 6, 2026 Ask before adding to group chatsA quick “Mind if I add you?” prevents awkward exits.
- April 5, 2026 Don’t pile on a typoOne correction is enough. Ten corrections is a dogpile.
- April 4, 2026 Emojis are great with friends 😂With people who know you, emojis help convey tone and reduce misunderstandings.
- April 3, 2026 Use emojis sparingly at work 🙂In professional settings, use emojis to soften tone — not to replace words.
- April 2, 2026 Avoid sarcasm with strangersWithout shared context, sarcasm reads like hostility. Use plain words.
- April 1, 2026 If you’re annoyed, draft — don’t sendWrite it, wait 10 minutes, then reread as if you’re the recipient.
- March 31, 2026 One ask per messageTwo or three separate asks in one message often means none get answered.
- March 30, 2026 Don’t “reply all” by defaultIf only one person needs the answer, reply to them. Save everyone else’s inbox.
- March 29, 2026 Use subject lines like labels“Question” is vague. “Question about invoice #4821” gets faster answers.
- March 28, 2026 Be kind, then be directYou can be clear without being cold. Lead with respect, then state the point.
- March 27, 2026 Quote only what you needReplying to a 12‑email thread? Trim the quote so people see what you’re answering.
- March 26, 2026 Match the channel to the messageIf it’s sensitive, complex, or emotional, move from text to a call (or in person).
- March 25, 2026 Assume good intent firstIf a message feels harsh, pause before reacting. Tone doesn’t always travel well online.
- March 24, 2026 Write like you’re talking to a busy friendShort sentences. Clear ask. No mystery abbreviations. Your future self will thank you.
- March 23, 2026 Credit the sourceSharing an idea? Mention where it came from.
- March 22, 2026 Be specific with feedbackDescribe the behavior and impact, not the person.
- March 21, 2026 Be specific with feedbackDescribe the behavior and impact, not the person.
- March 20, 2026 Give context in DMsStart with the topic — don’t just say “hi” and wait.
- March 19, 2026 Don’t send walls of textBreak long messages into paragraphs or numbered steps.
- March 18, 2026 Summarize decisionsAfter a call, post the decision + next steps so everyone aligns.